In keeping with the new and improved board, do you find yourself requesting friends or are you the one getting requests. This can be applied to life in general as well. For instance, a social situation do you begin the conversation first..etc. For me, it depends. In the past (pre-husband, pre-baby and while in a familiar location) I could honestly say that I was the one being sought after. Now, not so much. I find myself making the effort to befriend people. Not just on DAM but in general. How about you ladies?