A little bit of both. . .I remember telling myself that I was going to have make a conscious effort to make friends once I didn't have school classmates as a fall back.
But I've also found people reaching out to me as well, which I really appreciate.
Today, however, as my work day was hectic, and the new DAM look is kinda freaking me out, I've gotten four invite for friendships before I had a chance to send any out. I appreciate the love.