Thanks for the support

I got a call from the doc this afternoon, and my horomone levels had significantly dropped, so she believes that I had a spontaneous miscarriage. Which of the two options that I was choosing from, I guess it's the better of the two, but it still not good...ya know. Anyways, I know God has a plan so it wasn't meant to be, but it still doesn't make it hurt less. I just feel like I've been on a roller coaster ride for the last 72 hours...at least the ride is over.

:hug I'm so sorry.

I'm very sorry. :( I will say a prayer for you and your family.

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:hug I am so sorry Cynthia.

:hug :hug :hug I am so sorry

I'm sorry Cynthia. :hug

I'm so sorry, yet grateful for you to have been spared the drama of an ectopic pregnancy.

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I'm so sorry, yet grateful for you to have been spared the drama of an ectopic pregnancy.

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Yes, like my dh said many people were praying that I did not have to go through that, and we should be thankful that their prayers were heard.

He has been out of town through all of this but his company got him on a flight home and he will be here tomorrow afternoon.

I am so sorry.

:hug I'm so sorry for your loss.

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I am so sorry. :hug

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I'm sorry for your loss as well. I'll be praying for you and your family.

Sorry for your loss.

I'm so sorry to hear that. I'll be praying for you...

:hug I'm so sorry for your loss.

:hug I am so sorry to hear!

I'm sorry for your loss and grief :( :hug

i'm sooo sorry~

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:hug I am so sorry, Cynthia. And I'm sorry you had to go through this without your husband at home. Glad he'll be back tomorrow. :hug

Ok, so this is my first post. But this thread hit close to home. First of all, I am very sorry for your loss. I went through a spontaneous miscarriage in June. It was probably the most heartwrenching experience of my life. I healed just fine - physically. It took a long time, which probably didn't help the healing process. But everytime I thought I was better emotionally, one of my friends would announce their pregnancy. Then I was back to square one.

I looked to so many people for the right words. But after I turned to my priest and still didn't hear them, I realized there are no "right" words. I had to take my healing in my own hands. I convinced myself that, yes, God has a plan. Even though we wanted that baby more than anything, something wasn't right. It motivated me to take better care of myself.

I get so wrapped up in life and in being a mommy to my daughter (which I love - don't get me wrong), that I forget about myself WAY too much. So instead of inhaling lunch during my lunch hour, I started an exercise program (the ONLY time I can). My trainer has helped me a great deal. Now that I feel better about myself - from the inside - I find I have helped myself to recover from the emotional pain.

I'm not saying that exercise will make you better. And the pain will never totally go away. But pick up a hobby that makes YOU happy, that gives you YOU time. Cry. Scream. Do whatever helps you get through it. I've been a member of DAM for less than 2 hours, and I can safely say there's a TON of support here too.

Sorry for rambling - you got me on a soapbox! I hope it helped at least a little:-). Best of luck to you and your husband for future healthy pregnancies!

I am sorry for your loss.

Still praying for you...

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:hugs, Sweetie!

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