Positive OPK!

So I took a OPK last Wed but got a negative. I figured since my cycles are long I would wait tell today to take another one. I am on CD17 today. So I took it and got a positive with the test line being a bit darker then the control line!! :upthumb

So some unoffical trying is going on tonight and tomorrow!:lol

Hubba, Hubba :lol

Have fun http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v363/cathyann31/bananahump.gif trying! :)

Oooh, did your dh go for it?? Or is it unofficial meaning HE doesn't know about it? :lol

Its unofficial meaning he knows I want a baby but he pulls out. So he knows the risk but won't officially try with me.

good luck!

Ah, I see, well good luck!

Thanks ladies!!

Did you ever talk to him about sperm donation?

Yea he said a big fat NO. :hopmad He isn't open to anything I suggest. He says he would rather us take our chances together.

Nice banana's Cathy! hahaha

Awwww...good luck! It's V-day so love is in the air :throblove

Susan

I always thought BD was baby dancing...who knew B stood for banana??? LOL That's great.

Susan

Have fun http://img.photobucket.com/albums/v363/cathyann31/bananahump.gif trying! :)

BABY DUST!!!

You know, I might be the odd one here, but I understand his POV. I'd rather it be all of "us" or NONE of us (adopting or IVF with someone else's sperm and egg) At least he didn't "go along with the flow" and then 3 years later resent you and YOUR child and not feel like the child is his in any way. At least he's being honest. God knows what you need and can handle. Your child is perfect, and your children in the future will be perfect, even if it's not by doctor standards.

:hug

Thanks Lisa, I understand where your coming from but if unless you have a special needs child and its your first and only child you most likely don't understand the fact of still wanting a healthy child. I am glad that my dh is honest and upfront but I wish he could be more open to other ideas.

That's true, and I hope I didn't offend you. Is he at least communicating with you, or is he just giving you a "no"? I hope you two are able to talk openly about this stuff. I know sometimes guys can make you feel like you're talking to a brick wall.

Good luck on trying!!

Good luck...have fun trying!

That's true, and I hope I didn't offend you. Is he at least communicating with you, or is he just giving you a "no"? I hope you two are able to talk openly about this stuff. I know sometimes guys can make you feel like you're talking to a brick wall.
Not offended at all.:throblove Yea we are able to talk about it but I get frustrated a bit when we do. Although at least he is open to doing the pull out method, it gives me some type of hope at least.

I hope you guys are able to come to some kind of peaceful agreement. Given that he is also raising a special needs child with you, he is going to understand better than any of us would.

I hope you guys are able to come to some kind of peaceful agreement. Given that he is also raising a special needs child with you, he is going to understand better than any of us would.
I totally agree. Especially since he may have to raise two special needs children.

LOL he raise them, I am the one that raises my son. He does help support them though.

I totally agree. Especially since he may have to raise two special needs children.

Yes, I meant and all that that encompasses. Why do I get the feeling that that comment was meant to be snippy?

Yes, I meant and all that that encompasses. Why do I get the feeling that that comment was meant to be snippy?
No no no!. I was totally agreeing with you. I am so sorry if it came off as snippy to you. I PMd you. So sorry Shirelle.