Summer
01-30-2006 Monday, 05:57 PM
I am almost ready to start trying for another baby but I have some major concerns before we even start. I had Ernest 7 weeks early by way of c-section. My water broke the 29th of April and I was on meds to stop labor but a stomach virus did me in on May 1st. I had a fever, vomiting and very tender uterus so my OB tried to induce which failed. I had a c-section all alone in the OR because Iggy had the same virus as me. Needless to say I was very disappointed in my sons birth. I had planned an all natural no drugs delivery. I originally wanted a water home birth but Iggy was dead set against it.
If we have another baby it will be my last and I want my dream birth. Will I be able to find a midwife who will do a home birth VBAC? My daughters birth was to be no drugs but I had her in a military hospital where I got yelled at for making noise during contractions. Was pressured into a Epi which stalled my labor so lucky me got put on Pitocin. :frown Going from 7 to 10 in 2 minutes is not fun!
It may seem weird but this time I don't want an IV and monitors, no finding out babies sex since I already have 1 of each plus and step-daughter and I want to give birth in warm water. Any idea on how to find a midwife before I get pregnant?
If we have another baby it will be my last and I want my dream birth. Will I be able to find a midwife who will do a home birth VBAC? My daughters birth was to be no drugs but I had her in a military hospital where I got yelled at for making noise during contractions. Was pressured into a Epi which stalled my labor so lucky me got put on Pitocin. :frown Going from 7 to 10 in 2 minutes is not fun!
It may seem weird but this time I don't want an IV and monitors, no finding out babies sex since I already have 1 of each plus and step-daughter and I want to give birth in warm water. Any idea on how to find a midwife before I get pregnant?
