Incredibly sad

My favorite SIL just called to tell me that she is PG with her 3rd baby. We have a wonderful relationship and she knows about our difficulties with TTC and IF issues, so she is sensitive to situation. I am happy for her and BIL...really I am. She is a wonderful mother and deserves all the best.

But, I am so incredibly sad for DH and me. I managed to hold it together until I got off the phone with her, but then the tears started flowing and won't stop. DH is out of town, so I called to talk to him, but I really wish that he was home with me...it is just not the same on the phone.

I am feeling really low right now and disappointed and frustrated with our IF. It seems that everywhere around me women are getting PG so easily and having beautiful babies. I just can't get away from it...at work, whenever I go I am surrounded by PG women. It just hurts my heart and I am hurting so badly for my DH. I want more than anything to make him a Daddy.

So, if I am not posting as much in the next few days/weeks, please know that I am ok, but I just need to step away from it all right now and come to terms with life and the cards we have been dealt.

Cara,
I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. I went through IF for many years and can completely relate with getting those types of phone calls. I wish that I would've had some type of support group when I went through it.
Please know that you can PM anytime.

Cara,
I'm so sorry to hear that you're feeling this way. I went through IF for many years and can completely relate with getting those types of phone calls. I wish that I would've had some type of support group when I went through it.
Please know that you can PM anytime.

Ditto!! and HUGS :heartbeat

:grouphug Cara, I am sorry- I know that phone call was rought. Hang in there!

I am so sorry you are going thru this. BIG hugs to you!

Hang in there. I know how hard it is. I went through it for 5 years before I conceived my little boy.

Cara, I remember those feelings! When my SIL called to say she was pg with her second even DH said "why do they get two and we can't have any?" Please feel free to PM me since I know how you're feeling. It's hard but you'll be wondering how you got through it all when you have a baby in your arms. It will happen!

Im sorry Cara. I too have spent many nights crying because of IF issues. ((HUGS))

:hug Is your dh due home soon? I know you could sure use a real hug from him!

I'm so sorry. I know how hard that kind of thing is to hear. :hug

Aw Cara! I'm so sorry. My heart goes out to you! I'm keeping you in my prayers! If you need somebody to talk to, I'll just listen! PM me! I"m sending you big big hugs!

I'm sorry. I remember the pain of our secondary infertility all too well. I am sending cyber-hugs your way.

Thanks, ladies.

:hug I wish there was some way to make you feel better. I will be thinking of you!

I am so sad for you! I totally understand those feelings and they are horrible.

Please remember this is why we are here. I understand if you feel the need to step away but we are here to support you through the good and the not so good! We are here to be a place to cry, vent, laugh and just chill.

Do you have MSN or Yahoo? If so please add me.. Susie_in_Texas (yahoo) and Susie_in_Texas@yahoo.com (MSN)

((Hugs))

I'm sorry Cara. :( I've prayed for you many times, and I will continue to pray for you.

oh Cara! I am so very sorry. Please know that I am thinking of you. I know how you feel in some sort of way. I realize that I do have one child but hearing all these stories of other women pregnant gets me so sad as we are trying for a second amd we have no luck after 9 months. You are in my thoughts and prayers!

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I'm so sorry. I know it will happen for you, but that doesn't help right now, I know. :hug

:grouphug I just wanted to say BIG hugs to you!!!

Im so sorry, Cara. I know it doesnt help but Im crying here with you now! :hug

Lots of hugs to you! :hug

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:hug I'm so sorry Cara!

Cara I am so sorry and hugs to you and your hubby. I too understand I went through IF for 5yrs before my little boy. I totally understand 100% if you ever want to talk please feel free to call anytime day or night.

Jenna

Oh Cara, I'm so sorry. I can't imagine how you're feeling - this must be so hard for you and your dh. :( Hang in there and keep praying about it!

Cara....here's a big e-hug. I've been in your shoes. There is no feeling like it. After IF Tx for years my sister had her 3rd 'oops' pg. After my 12th cycle of Clomid and progesterone my SIL (that I can't stand) gave out the little babies from King Cakes for Christmas presents to let us they were expecting. She then said..Ok Susan, now it's your turn...knowing that we had been trying for 4.5 years...It sucks and it stings. Pamper yourself over the next few days.

Susan

I am so lucky to have each and every one of you for support. I truly appreciate each of your posts and kindness towards me.

I am doing better, but my emotions are still all over the place. DH comes home in just 2 hours, so I am really looking forward to spending the weekend with him.

Thanks again.

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I am so sorry. I know how you feel all my friends are pregnant too. We are all here for you and big hugs for you!